How do I get my parents to understand that the path I’m taking right now is not the right one for me? What to do when my I want to pursue something and my parents want me to do something else?

Yes, there are many scenarios where there are conflicts between the career desires of the parent and the child.

Unfortunately, In most cases what happens is that, the parent and the child goes into disagreement with each other on the matter and the child goes into a shell, loses interest and stops performing in studies.

One important thing to remember is to perform well in your academics! Yes – instead of just giving up because your parents are not understanding you right, try to show them that you are being serious and reasonable about your career and not just being careless and lazy. When you do well in your academics with your full potential, it gives you the right to speak. There is more chance for your parents to listen to you if they know that you are willing to work hard and are seriously putting efforts for your academics. Make it clear to them that your career choice is not just an escape route from academics, but something you want to follow keeping your interests and abilities in mind.

Another thing to do is to look at the various options. Do your own research into the field you want to pursue. And be clear on why you want to pursue it. The better knowledge you have about what you want to pursue, will communicate your genuine interest for that area.

Also, If possible, take the help of your teacher or a career guidance counselor to communicate with your parents so that they will be able to hear from another person about the rational of your desired career choice. A teacher who knows you well will be able to give your parents an idea about your interests and abilities.